Nemat Kaur

Dear Beta...
It's the year 2021... you are always in our memories... day or night..
Now, this year Simar will also go to college...
your brother is a BIG boy now...
So we will be alone again.... Now Milo (Our dog, he is now almost 2 years...) will be staying with us...
May Waheguru give his blessing to all of us all the time...
Missing you beta....
luv u...
Your Mom-Dad-Simar and Milo

Luv u Beta.....
Its 4th march and u got admitted to hospital in the evening.....every thing just came back in front of eyes like flash back... and by 5th Mar evening u left us for forever.....
But you are always in our memories and ardaas.... we know u are in good hands and WaheGuru blessings will always with u.....
U know beta we got new puppy.... his name is Milo.... he is now 9 months old.... white color labradoodle....
Simar veera is also like u.... he always found of shoes like u.... 
We all miss u too much.... our eyes always look for u.....
Dad mom simar 

Luv u Beta.. 
You are always in our prayers...
Day and Night our eyes still look for you...
When you eat, When you study, When you play and When you go to Gurudwara....
Always when we go to Gurudwara...
...Our eyes looking for you....  like u will come from some corner and give us hug....
...but its all dreams now...
...we cannot find you
...we cannot touch you except your pictures...
Your Mom-Dad-SimarVeera...

mssing you....

Missing you from the first hour of every day
Missing you when we see you getting ready for your school
Missing you when you go to school
Missing you when you back home with bag weight is bigger then you
Missing you when you do you home work
Missing you when you ride bike
Missing you when you play on street with your friends
Missing you when you eat dinner and we always say eat beta eat...eat fast
Missing you during bed time stories....

Missing you everywhere....Today is your birthday and we are going to GuruGhar as we used to go with you...

luv you beta
Dad-Mom-Simar

Today is Oct'16...

Few dates which you never forget....
Still its look like that Nemat is with us and just went to school....and she will be back and give warm hug...but now all are in dreams...we can only think...

We all miss you beta..

What i have learned or understood in past years that nothing will stay with us (Gurbani always says that) except NAAM of WAHEGURU...
so where ever we lives... here or there..
we are alive or dead...
String of NAAM will keep us connected to ONE...

Luv you - Dad / Mom / SimarPal

Oct 16th 2013....

Today is another birthday of our loving angel....
....Now we count the years without her but memories are still in our mind & heart...
......May Waheguru bless you wherever you are shining and may waheguru always keep you under his shadow...

........Luv u - Mom - Dad - Simar and all near & dear...

...time is flying like anything...
......when 2011 gets over and 2012 came now 2012 is also half way...
........everything is growing and changing with time.......
but beta....
...your pictures are stand still and smiling as always you smile.....
.....your are always in our memories day and night...
......memories gets deeper and deeper....
.......some time we cry and some time laugh but always ....end up with more and more thoughts..
..... luv you
........Mom-Dad-Simar

Dear Nemat,
It is hard to believe that you had left us one year back. Your memories are so fresh in our hearts that we can't forget your beautiful & innocent smile. I know that how difficult it is for your parents and Simar to live without you but then it is the destiny which made a call on you on the same day last year. Nemat, I know that wahe guru must have sent you back in this world with some bigger task. The sufferings you faced in your short life were really meant to make your parents stronger as your destiny was already defined when you came in our lives. Nemat, I remember when I saw you last time in the mortuary, you were sleeping so peacefully as if you had attained enlightnment.
May your angel soul rest in peace.

Yours
Dadu, Dadi, Tayaji, Tayiji, Sunny Veera and Heena Di

Thinking of You with Love
We thought of you with love today,
but that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
and days before that too.
We think of you in silence,
we often speak your name.
All we have are memories,
and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake,
with which we will never part.
God has you in His keeping,
we have you in our hearts.
A million times we`ve wanted you.
A million times we cried.
If love could only have saved you,
you never would have died.
It broke our hearts to lose you.
But you didn`t go alone.
For a part of us went with you...
the day God called you Home.

Nemat betu,

It has been one year when destiny snatched you away from us.but no body can take your memories away from us.

You are always in our thoughts and talks. We feel very sad when we think about your sufferings of your 10 years of small life and we still complain to God but somewhere you are our strength when we remember your beautiful smile with all your sufferings.

We feel sad when we remember your tears (emotions) you used to have in your social life. We miss you in our happy moments too, that time your absence brings tears in our eyes, we three stand together and feel sad for fourth spot.

This is the truth that we have to live rest of our life with those memories, we can not see that dimplish smile again in our this life.

We can not go against God rule but we always pray to God  not to give any sufferings for your next life wherever you are.
God bless you Nimma.

Your Mom-Dad-Simar

Dear Brother,
I know that your loss is irreparable but at the same time you should accept that Nemat has gone for ever. She will never come back and we all have to live without her. Let her soul rest in peace wherever she is and we should not interfere with the Marji of Wahe Guru. I am sending some quotes below with an effort to ease your pain. May Wahe Guru gives you strength to come out of the sorrow. 

Often when the heart is torn with sorrow, spiritually we wander like a traveller

lost in a deep wood.

We grow frightened, lose all sense of direction, and batter ourselves against trees

and rocks in our attempt to find a path.

All the while there is a path- a path of faith-that leads straight out of the dense

tangle of our difficulties into the open road we are seeking.

We win victory over bereavement only when we face our loss, accept our loss, 

and then make our way through and beyond our loss. 

You ask how we make our way through it and beyond it? 

We do so by deliberately re-entering the world of daily activity-

the busy world of problems, duties, friendships, opportunities and satisfactions. 

A resentful, self-pitying life is a doomed life. 

Only the life that picks up and starts again is victorious.

The loss of a loved one is a sorrow all of us must eventually face, 

And, never is help more needed than during the first dark days of bereavement.

The true way to mourn the dead is to take care of the living who belong to them.

Believe when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world. 

So long as you can sweeten another’s pain, life is not in vain.

 

 

 

She always sit with me and play with my phone....one of her picture from gurughar....

..Year 2011 is over a day before and left so many memories on our heart which can never be filled...
..Its 10th month now and still our eyes search for our loving Nemat at everywhere....
..We just pray to God (Waheguru) bless her wherever she is..
..We miss you beta..i don't want to touch the files and folders of my computer as everywhere your name is exist..
..Whenever we play WII or some game you come in front of us as you are also their as character....Beta you are not with us but still your things and memories always with us...
..Nemat beta, Simar miss you too but never share with us, but he love you and miss you too...
..Picture is added from 2010 Diwali candle lits at gurughar fremont..
....luv you and miss you beta...
Your Mom-Dad-Simar  

...As the human being at the end of the day we accept that it was her destiny and that is what by the order of WaheGuru (God) "Hukmay ander sabko, bahar hukam na koi...."

...Every time of the day you miss either at home, office, park, gurughar or outside... 

...When i was sitting in gurughar (Sikh temple) this Sunday (10/16), my friends daughter 3 year old sitting next to me....She used to play with Nemat lots....

...She asked me....Surinder Uncle "When Nemat didi is coming back?, I want to play with her...."
...I was not able to answer anything to her as that was sudden question to me... and we cannot answer this...and tell the truth...

She miss's Nemat lots as they both play long hours everytime we meet....her dada (elder brother) and Simar play all the time and she always miss Nemat company....She always try to find from mom, dad and brother about Nemat didi ....why Nemat didi went out for so long...

... Luv you Beta...

Dear Nemat,
Remembering you on your birthday has filled my eyes with tears. It is really very difficult to see someone dear departing from us but it is the most difficult to see someone departing when we are aware that the person will not come back ever. Nemat, I can't forget the moment I saw you in the Mortuary, sleeping like an Angel. You left us so suddenly that we did not even get the time to say sorry for the harsh words we used sometimes to make you eat your food or follow our instructions, but we all know that you were such an Angel that you have forgiven us.
May your soul rest in peace and may Wahe Guru brings you in our lives again & again.
We all love you dear.

Your's
Tayaji, Tayiji, Sunny Veera & Heena Didi.

A poem for you darling Nemat...
The years may wipe out many things
But some they wipe out never.
Like memories of those happy times
When we were all together.
 

Nemat Beta....You always in our heart....luv

This is what Simar wrote next day, when he came to know about Nemat......

".......Nemat is with us forever !!

I Know, Nemat told me, I heard her says in my heart......

You can close your eyes and think deeply in your heart and you can see her (Nemat) in your heart....."

.......Luv Simar

When we born....

....parents celebrates our birth days....

...baby is one day, one week, one month and one year and so....on

...Same like when Nemat left us....we counted one minute, one hour, and hours, one day, one week, one month and now 4th month is near and then years and years will pass.....

.....Every movment at home or outside our eyes are missing / looking something...
how she hugs in the morning....
how she hugs at bed time....
how she plays with bros'...
how she fight with bro's for her turns...
how she get defensive for her toy's/dolls ....
how we play together..
how family sits together during meals time..
how we all go for outing / long drive ...
how she get so excited for any social gathering / dinner at friends places...
how she always sits next to me in the Fremont Gurughar and take pictures and play on my phone.....
...She always asked on weekend are we going someone house or someone is coming to our house...so they get more play time....
...there are lots more....we cannot give words to our feelings...

....Our eyes are always looking for our Angel...like some magic will happen and our Angel will be with us again...

....She was like running water which never stays at one place whole day she used to run's here, there, up and down in the house...
.....and at the end got evaporated like water and where no one can see her except picture's and memories...Luv you Beta (Nemat)

...Dad